Inspiring Emotionally Healthy Boys:
From Stereotypes to SEL Success

Welcome to IFSEL’s Resource Page for Inspiring Emotionally Healthy Boys!  We hope you’ll join our sessions, enjoy the resources and connection, and have great success implementing them back at your school.

Introduction to IFSEL

Social & Emotional Competencies

IFSEL's Whole Community Approach

Chapter 6: "Building and Sustaining a
Whole-Community Approach to Equity-Rooted SEL"

Chapter 6:
"Building and Sustaining a Whole-Community Approach to Equity-Rooted SEL"

by IFSEL Executive Director and Co-Founder Nick Haisman-Smith

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Upcoming Professional Development

IFSEL's Events

Restorative Practices Workshop

K-12
San Mateo, CA
March 19 & 20

Two-day workshop offers K-12 educators, administrators, and counselors a comprehensive model of proactive and responsive approaches for Peace Building and Conflict Resolution.

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Advisory Program Design - US Time Zones

Middle & High School
Online (US)
March 25 & April 1

Advisory thrives when vision meets structure. This course offers practical insights for designing programs that fit your time and context—whether 10, 30, or 60 minutes.

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Advisory Program Design - Asia Time Zones

Middle & High School
Online (Asia)
March 26 & April 2

Advisory thrives when vision meets structure. This course offers practical insights for designing programs that fit your time and context—whether 10, 30, or 60 minutes.

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Whole Community Approach to Equity-Rooted SEL

K-12
Atlanta, GA
April 23 & 24

This experiential two-day workshop invites K–12 educators, administrators, counselors, and advisors to explore how to design, embed, and sustain SEL across the whole community.

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Restorative Practices Workshop

K-12
Brussels, Belgium
May 1 & 2

Two-day workshop offers K-12 educators, administrators, and counselors a comprehensive model of proactive and responsive approaches for Peace Building and Conflict Resolution.

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SEL Institute

K-12
Washington, DC
June 22 - 25

The Institute provides participants with inspiration and current research as well as experiential lesson materials. Learn ten distinct educator practices that expand social and emotional learning, inclusivity and well-being.

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AI SEL Institute

K-12
San Mateo, CA
July 27 - 30

This Institute invites educators to collaboratively explore how Social and Emotional Learning and Futures Literacy can center humanity, curiosity, compassion, and belonging in an AI driven era, equipping students with the inner resources to navigate rapid change and shape their future.

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Restorative Practices Workshop

K-12
Chicago, IL
August 10 & 11

Two-day workshop offers K-12 educators, administrators, and counselors a comprehensive model of proactive and responsive approaches for Peace Building and Conflict Resolution.

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SEL Foundations: Building the Groundwork for Connection & Belonging

K-6
Boston, MA
August 13 & 14

FSEL’s Foundational SEL course prepares educators to teach this essential sequence of foundational skills with clarity and confidence. Through engaging experiences and practical tools, teachers integrate SEL into daily routines. The result is less stress and classrooms that are more joyful, effective, and connected.

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Advisory Workshop: The Art & Science of School Belonging

Middle School & High School
Boston, MA
August 13 & 14

This experiential two-day workshop is designed to upskill your practice and amplify your impact. Together, we’ll unpack the role of the advisor, tackle common challenges, and build a toolkit that promotes student belonging, connection, and success.

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Inspiring Emotionally Healthy Boys Resources

Workshop Slides

Appreciation Practices

60-Second Strategy: Appreciation, Apology, Aha! Video


Check-Ins for Self and Social Awareness

Check-In Resources

Emotionary

Layers of Feelings

Traffic Jam Cooperative Challenge

Boys Resources

Boys Do Cry
Matt Pinkett

Schools are undergoing a mental health crisis and adult statistics surrounding male suicide paint a bleak picture of the future for boys in our schools. From bullying and sexism to traditional ideals of masculinity, outdated expectations of what it is to be male are causing boys to suffer. Research also shows that this is having a negative impact on girls in our schools.

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Boys, A Rescue Plan
Michael Gurian and Sean Kullman

An emotional and epic journey through the issues boys face and the solutions proven to help them, Boys, A Rescue Plan is a powerful and profound read for parents, citizens, legislators, and anyone involved in the care of our sons.

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Global Initiative for Boys and Men

The Global Initiative for Boys and Men supports boys, men, and families through research and advocacy. Their professional staff works closely with leading researchers, community groups, public and private institutions, and policy makers to support boys and men and the women who love them.

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International Boys' Schools Coalition Podcast

The International Boys' Schools Coalition champions boys' education. This regular podcast that delves into and examines current issues affecting boys, teachers of boys and boys' schools.

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Of Boys and Men
Richard V. Reeves

Boys are falling behind at school and college because the educational system is structed in ways that put them at a disadvantage. Men are struggling in the labour market because of an economic shift away from traditionally male jobs. And fathers are dislocated because the cultural role of family provider has been hollowed out. The male malaise is not the result of a mass psychological breakdown, but of deep structural challenges.

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Oh Boy
Michael C. Nagel

This engaging book takes a close look at the male brain – how it develops, and how it is different – and the crucial role it plays in how a boy thinks, learns and engages with the world.

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On Boys
Jennifer L.W. Fink and Janet Allison

Real talk about parenting, teaching and reaching tomorrow's men.

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Rebels with a Cause
Niobe Way

From NYU professor of developmental psychology Niobe Way, an in-depth exploration about what boys and young men teach us about themselves, us, and the toxic culture we have created, one in which we value money over people, toys over human connection, and academic achievement over kindness. Based on her longitudinal and mixed-method research over thirty-five years, Rebels with a Cause is a true call to action to change the culture so that we stop the vicious cycle of violence and blame.

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Reclaiming Possibility
David E. Kirkland
Word in Black

David E. Kirkland, founder and CEO of forwardED, says if we lift up Black males, the entire educational system will radically transform.

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Say No to “Boys Will Be Boys”
Colleen Clemens
Learning for Justice - Southern Poverty Law Center

This article is the second in a three-part series on toxic masculinity. How can we disrupt toxic masculinity in our boys as they come of age? Let’s start by eliminating some phrases from our homes and classrooms.

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Toxic Masculinity Is Bad for Everyone
Colleen Clemens
Learning for Justice - Southern Poverty Law Center

This article is the third in a three-part series on toxic masculinity. While we as a society work together for solutions to end mass violence, we educators need to rethink how we teach masculinity through our deeds and actions.

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What We Mean When We Say, “Toxic Masculinity”
Colleen Clemens
Learning for Justice - Southern Poverty Law Center

This article is the first in a three-part series on toxic masculinity. How to help students make sense of the current news cycle? The term “toxic masculinity” can be useful vocabulary for these conversations.

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